People only delete their posts for one of three reasons:
1. Mistake! In which case you can point out how to correct things and as she will have received a copy of all deleted posts, you might be able to persuade her to re-post them, or, at least, forward that mail to you so you can on her behalf.
For the other two I'll ask you to look at it the other way round.
2. They have become embarrassed by them. Would you really want someone to have control over your posts that make you cringe?
3. They are angry about the way they have been treated by the owner or other users of the forum. Would you want those who you longer trusted or respected to take control over material you no longer wished to share?
In view of your suspicion of lack of honesty, it could be assumed that one or other of reasons #2 or #3 apply, and that would mean that she would feel that you are not being totally sympathetic, respectful, honest or honourable in wishing to reinstate her deleted posts.
In that case either sympathise with her situation or grovel and take action that placates her. She will have received a copy of her deleted posts. Flutter your eyelashes at her sweetly and she may be prepared to re-post everything.
Only the user themselves can control their profile. Again, I ask you to consider a situation where you were embarrassed or angry. Wouldn't you wish to have control of your profile?
Of course, I may have read too much into your post. Forgive me if I have and explain again.
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